I think that's the problem. All the what-ifs. They just roll around in my head and get louder and louder and it's hard to ignore and-
And a lot of the time, I don't feel like I deserve any forgiveness.
[For anything. It's still a big hurdle for him. Being able to marry the knowledge he has been forgiven with the concept that he deserves it. He's still...working on that one. Still, he genuinely appreciates her advice.]
That's a good way of looking at it, though. Those steps? I'll try to remember that. I can't promise I'll be very good at it, but I can try.
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And a lot of the time, I don't feel like I deserve any forgiveness.
[For anything. It's still a big hurdle for him. Being able to marry the knowledge he has been forgiven with the concept that he deserves it. He's still...working on that one. Still, he genuinely appreciates her advice.]
That's a good way of looking at it, though. Those steps? I'll try to remember that. I can't promise I'll be very good at it, but I can try.